As an interviewer, I occasionally conduct interviews that become painful as time goes on because the candidate is doing so poorly. I have the impression that, in these cases, the candidate internally knows they are not getting the job, and would just like to end things as soon as possible (as would I).
In the past, I have handled phone interviews of this type by ending a little early and giving a standard closing. However, I have empathy for the candidates and would feel better if I could say something nice without being dishonest. They’re not getting the job, but I may still respect them and honestly wish them well. I’m not really sure how I could tactfully express thoughts like this, though.
My question is mainly about phone-based interviews, but I’m interested in answers that also apply to in-person interviews. To be clear, this question is how, specifically, to be nice at the end of a bad interview, so I’m looking for something more specific than simply ask how to end a bad interview. (Hence I don’t consider this a duplicate of questions asking how to end a bad interview.)
You then have the option to elaborate if you feel so inclined and/or if the now-former candidate asks either with the literal truth or something generic like “I just don’t think it’s a good fit.”
I actually had someone do that to me in a face-to-face and that’s how they worded it. It was supposed to be 3 steps in the interview and after 20 minutes they decided I wasn’t suited for them*. I was actually grateful that they chose not to waste my time going through the motions.
Well, you probably are ending things politely so I’m leaving that part out. What I have experienced and have tried to apply since it happened to me as an applicant is offering advice. Interviews are a great experience not only for getting a job but for finding your weaknesses and knowledge gaps.
If you are not willing to move on with the interview you can openly say it, but sugar coating that hit with some advice is a nice thing to do.
لقد أنهيت أيضًا المقابلات كمرشح على الهاتف بنفسي. لقد طرحوا سؤالاً لم يكن لدي إجابة عليه وقلت لهم إنني لا أعرف. كان السؤالان التاليان في نفس الاتجاه ، مع علمهم أنني قلت بالفعل أنني لم أكن أتقن هذا المجال بشكل خاص ولكنهم استمروا في ذلك. عند هذه النقطة قلت ، “دعونا نتوقف هنا فقط. كلانا يعلم أنني لا أجيب على أسئلتك بشكل جيد ، ولكي أكون صادقًا ، فأنت تعيد ذكر نفس الموضوع بعد أن قيل لك إنني بالفعل لا أعرف ربما يعني أننا لن نكون مناسبين “. ينسى الكثير من الناس أنه طريق ذو اتجاهين ويبدو أنهم مصدومون لأن أي شخص سينهي مقابلته بالفعل.